Relationship Soul Plan

Have you ever noticed that a couple who have previously lived together for an eternity, unmarried, then suddenly separate, as soon as they get married?

This can sometime be the result of one partner adopting the other's Surname...

What effect does your partner's vibration have on your ability to complete your soul’s purpose?

Will one partner’s energy enhance or potentially undermine the other?

What can be done to neutralise this influence?

Map out your awakening Journey together ...

Download: Relationship Example

For those who wish to explore.

A Relationship Soul Plan helps you to workout what you might need to be aware of when you join with another. It can also help determine the suitability of a marital name change, or help 'tune' that change to be the most beneficial for your soul's purpose.

It will help you determine whether the other person's energy supports your own vibration, exacerbates challenges, negates talents or provides support for challenges. It will also let you know if adopting his or her name has the same impact.

The overlay is a superimposition that may act like a rose tint or a thick curtain.   It can change your appearance and will manifest changes in your environment.  Like with many things in life, understanding the limits and boundaries of things can sometimes help make your interaction, with those things, more rewarding.  Sign up for a reading if this resonates.

Relationship Soul Plan BACKGROUND

For those who wish to evolve, transform their relationships.

As you may well understand by now, the name is an indicator of the soul’s energy.  You may think of this system as helping you understand how Vibrations merge.  To use the analogy of music: when two or more notes are played together, is the result harmonious or discordant?

Understanding how you and your partner (business or personal) relate to one another, and what can be done to mitigate potential challenges is level one.

For those who wish to work deeper, and take this work to the next stage, we offer, family constellation work to sort out the family and ancestral energies and patterns that are playing out in the current relationship.

The next stage will be to work on specific issues relating to the business.


For those that need the background and principles. 

Our soul is a fractal point within an extensive and elaborate fractal design, which reproduces itself within the macro and the minutiae of our existence. Within everyday realty, we experience an aspect of our "Soul fractal" as it is seen through the lens of our existence on Earth. As we increase our vibration, our fractal segments become larger and we incorporate more of our Soul into the moment to moment framework of our lives.

The soul fractal also contains obstacles and trials for you, which are in fact 'gifts' (exercises) designed to assist you to recognise your Soul’s frequency.  You have to figure out (master) the challenge, and if you succeed, you come out holding a valuable treasure of experience, from which turn into your most valuable gifts. The Soul does not make mistakes.

Each position in the chart has a special significance - the downward triangle relates to the physical worldly existence - usually predominant in approximately the first 35 years of life.  The upward triangle relates to the spiritual aspect of life and usually is only felt towards the end of 35 years. However, many individuals are now being influenced much earlier by their own spiritual aspects.

Once you master your main worldly and spiritual energies you should be well on your way to addressing your Soul’s Destiny.

See Below for a further background explanation...


For those that like to hear reasons to have a Soul Plan Reading.

If this work resonates, a Soul Plan Reading is a useful guide to show you the predominant energies, themes and experiences that your soul intended for you to master or explore. This can provide another level of validation for some, and can help provide guidance for others who are feeling stuck or disconnected from their soul’s purpose.  It can help illuminate the intended learning represented by the obstacles in one’s life.

For many this will provide a great sense of relief; it will also increase your confidence, alignment and sense of purpose, as well as giving you a far greater insight and understanding of your true nature.  


  • A greater and clearer sense of life purpose
  • A map of your awakening journey
  • Understanding of why you have experienced this life
  • Access to yourself on a deeper level - a soul level
  • An acceleration of growth and healing
  • A deeper sense of understanding about your life experience
  • More clarity about life and your role in it
  • A healing and clearing of redundant patterns
  • A deep activation of your own unique abilities and potential

Sign Up for a Reading

You will need to have done a Standard Soul Plan Session before you can do this session.  

Sessions with partner at the same time will require that they have both had their Soul Plan Readings. If it's just one person, you will need your partner's full name as found on their birth certificate.

It's like a deep life coaching session, dealing with the fundamentals of your existence and how your energy comes into the world and impacts others.

Quiet time to reflect is recommended after the session.

You will receive a copy of your Soul Plan for later reference, plus you will get a recording of the session.

What to Expect

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Soul Plan has its roots in an ancient text called the Sefer Yetzirah. The English name for the text is The Book of Formation. It is theorised that the Sefer Yetzirah is one of the oldest, obscure and mystical texts which has influenced many Western esotericists, kabbalists and alchemists.  It presents a theory of creation that links letter sounds to the different aspects that make up material existence and the polarities of the everyday world.

The Book of Formation is thought to be one of the first references of the mystical meanings of the 22 letters of ancient Hebrew. It also postulates that reality can be seen as emanating from these 22 letters and therefore these letters represent the different facets and energies that make up this world.

If we accept humans as being a microcosm of the whole, then it is not a large leap to determine how these 22 energies are present in individual humans.

In this system, a human being is understood to be a microcosm of the wider creation and therefore embodies and experiences all the 22 energies inherent in the letters of creation. Understanding how these energies are affecting an individual provides a useful structure for understanding an individual incarnation.

Converting English names into ancient Hebrew, provides the method required for deciphering the meanings of a name.

Soul Plan uses the vibration of your full birth name to generate your ‘Star of Creation’. This is the contribution of the late Dr Frank Alper who in his ‘Spiritual Numerology of Moses’ system introduced an ordinal method of Gematria based around a six-pointed star.

Frank Alper contributed the method of spiralling the Hebrew vibrations of one’s name around a star tetrahedron that could be seen as an energetic structure overlaying the person. We use this method as the foundation to generate a chart that will depict your Soul Plan.

It is believed that the birth name has been inferred by the name givers from the Soul of the child to be named. In simple terms your birth name can be read in such a way as to indicate the energies that your soul has brought with it in this life.

In this present format Blue Marsden founder of the Holistic Healing College has extended on the original, added new interpretations, added some elements of numerology and channelled additional material. This is presented with, where possible, a non dualistic, more androgynous and modern orientation relevant to the 21st century and our current time.